Miss Me?

Join friends since birth Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver twice a week for their transatlantic catch-ups, discussing everything from the highs and lows of their lives to the biggest cultural moments of the week.

Every Monday, Lily and Miquita will throw the show open and invite questions on a theme; celebrity weddings, indie sleaze, orgasms, lies… Then on Thursdays, they’ll pick apart the world around them with unfiltered conversation on everything from intimacy to interiors, from exercise to elections.

Email: missme@bbc.co.ukWhatsApp: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK)

Credits:

Producer: Flossie BarrattTechnical Producer: Will Gibson SmithProduction Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie CliffordAssistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine OkuefunaCommissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins

Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

A Tariffic Time
Apr 10, 2025 – 36:13
Listen Bitch! Easy Come Easy Grow
Apr 7, 2025 – 31:37
A Damsel In Distress
Apr 3, 2025 – 36:34
Listen Bitch! And That’s On Period
Mar 24, 2025 – 37:21
Drop and Fluff
Mar 20, 2025 – 31:47
Listen Bitch! I'm The Problem
Mar 17, 2025 – 35:31
Five Stars of Disagreement
Mar 13, 2025 – 35:02
Listen Bitch! Hold The Phone
Mar 10, 2025 – 35:22
Say Thank You to Daddy
Mar 6, 2025 – 33:01
Listen Bitch! Back on Track
Mar 3, 2025 – 31:43
An Armie and a Leg
Feb 27, 2025 – 36:58
Listen Bitch! Kiss In Point
Feb 24, 2025 – 35:33
Fred AI-gain
Feb 20, 2025 – 26:22
Listen Bitch! Caress The Pain
Feb 17, 2025 – 28:39
I’m Just Gonna Ask Questions
Feb 13, 2025 – 36:12
Listen Bitch! Get Over It
Feb 10, 2025 – 33:34
Let’s Talk About Sex... with Jordan Stephens
Feb 6, 2025 – 33:45
Listen Bitch! Kill Your Darlings
Feb 3, 2025 – 32:13
A Popworld Baby… with Simon Amstell
Jan 30, 2025 – 30:21
Listen Bitch! Do You Even Rate Me?!
Jan 27, 2025 – 39:42
Neo-Indie Sleaze... with Jordan Stephens
Jan 23, 2025 – 43:05
Listen Bitch! Papa Don’t Preach
Jan 20, 2025 – 36:50
Love and Mawwiage… with Mabel
Jan 16, 2025 – 41:02
Listen Bitch! A Dedication To The Disrespect
Jan 13, 2025 – 28:43
The Reverse Cougar
Jan 9, 2025 – 31:56
Listen Bitch! My Loneliness Is Killing Me
Jan 6, 2025 – 35:25
Oh My 2025!
Jan 2, 2025 – 31:51
Listen Bitchmas!
Dec 23, 2024 – 39:49
The Gooch of Christmas Past
Dec 19, 2024 – 28:11
Listen Bitch! You Can’t Just Fix Me!
Dec 16, 2024 – 36:58
And… We’re Live!
Dec 12, 2024 – 35:35
Listen Bitch! The Fear
Dec 9, 2024 – 31:11
Wallace and Vomit
Dec 5, 2024 – 27:32
Listen Bitch! The Parent Trap?
Dec 2, 2024 – 32:33
Put The Tweezers Away… with Andi Oliver
Nov 28, 2024 – 39:53
Listen Bitch! A Political Hot Potato
Nov 25, 2024 – 31:39
Netflix and Kill
Nov 21, 2024 – 31:50
Listen Bitch! At Your Pleasure
Nov 18, 2024 – 35:33
MOTDQIA+
Nov 14, 2024 – 37:30
Listen Bitch! I Know What You’re Doing in There!
Nov 11, 2024 – 28:05
ChatS**tGPT
Nov 7, 2024 – 30:34
Listen Bitch! The Bin-ternet
Nov 4, 2024 – 36:53
I Am God
Oct 31, 2024 – 35:50
Listen Bitch! YOUR MUM.
Oct 28, 2024 – 34:43
So Scandalous
Oct 24, 2024 – 32:08
Listen Bitch! Total Recall?
Oct 21, 2024 – 34:23
The Rom Con
Oct 17, 2024 – 32:06
Listen Bitch! In The Right Balls Park
Oct 14, 2024 – 27:37
Forced De Bauche
Oct 10, 2024 – 35:14
Listen Bitch! A Yeast Injection
Oct 7, 2024 – 39:28

Recent Reviews

Fes123456

Racist

If you like racists - I guess this podcast is for you - your reaction to Zoe’s Oscar speech is truly awful
Cinnamonroll@.com

100 stars

I just love the one that Billie Eilish is in and don’t listen to the hater in the comments
Bradysmummy

Favorite part of my week!

Love this podcast and waiting for it to air is the longest part of the week. Lily & Miquita are so real and relatable, showing that they deal with the same issues as their less famous fans. Cant get enough of them, my new besties that I didn’t know I needed!
HarleenSQuinzeel

Minus 0 stars

This is the most annoying and pointless podcast ever! I tried once and I just couldn’t. Do yourself a favor and listen to something else. Its truly boring and stupid.
Badtingash23

Yikes

Lily not being able to acknowledge her White privilege is so problematic. White privilege doesn't come down to money. Lilys race alone provides her the opportunities that Black and Brown folks will never have. You are too old to be this dense.. Pick up a James Baldwin book babes
Gh0ulia

Spot on

I’ve been such a huge fan of Lily for so long and now I see why. Thank you for sharing so much. Our similarities truly make me feel more normal. And yes, sleep shopping is also a thing for me. Luckily my credit cards don’t have high limits. I’m also enjoying getting to know Mikita. I love both of you. Please never stop sharing yourselves.
KnivesOut14

Ew

What kind of gross animal gives their dog away?
slkkbnc

Horrible human

Dumping a dog for eating a passport is the owners fault to think it’s funny and publish it shows you are not only vile but should not ever own a living breathing thing probably down to plants deleted this from my downloads.
Lulu LaLuna

Nope

I used to occasionally tune in but after hearing her laugh as she described returning her adopted dog for chewing up her passports, never again. That old saying about greatness of a nation can be judged by how it treats its animals? I apply it to people and this casual dumping of an innocent puppy tells me a lot about Lily Allen’s character…
💕brener

Some people are

Too stupid and silly to have a dog. That would be you. You are one these people who treat animals as accessories and think you have a bad dog when it’s actually a reflection on how you ruined this puppy. Don’t get another one. You aren’t understanding the concept of dog ownership well enough. Spoiled narrow minded rich people are the absolute worst. Boo hoo I left my passport out and my dog ate it and it’s a bad dog because you couldn’t possibly be responsible. Gross.
Stevie Lewinsky

Miss me, unless it’s Miss Me?

I’ve loved Lily since I saw her perform at Roseland in NYC in 2009. Her first and second album were the soundtrack to my commutes from Brooklyn to FIT for university, and I’ve followed her career ever since. Miquita and Lily’s friendship and conversations are the perfect addition to my week. Love you two!
TheBoCo

Trash

I’m sorry I liked this podcast but your opinions on not using social media to increase the amount of awareness on your platforms are trash. It’s not 2013 anymore, and the way you speak about social media just shows how out of touch you are. Don’t hide behind being a mother. Sure you can go to protests and show up in the room, but it sounds like you haven’t been doing that either so don’t shun people. You sound like boomers. Also I’m sure it’s the BBC making you say it, but it’s not a war. It’s a genocide. And for just that I’m not interested. I don’t need a bunch of old white British people controlling what my podcasters can and cannot say. Regardless, your opinion and your stance is antiquated at best
LoveyouLily

Lily

Hi Lily, I just love your music and your whole persona . You are a Superstar. I hope you can continue to write and sing your songs in the future. Your asset to the world. Thank you, Mike from USA.
Lit plastic

Like comfort food for the soul

I’m an expat loving in Austria and really I can’t begin to tell you how much I adore sitting in with these two awesome ladies while they chew the fat. Love em!
CJ Glore

This podcast rocks!

Loving this podcast and how natural it is vibe wise! I could listen to you talk and ramble for hours. I have binge listened to all episodes and now I need more! I can’t wait to see what topics you discuss in the future. It’s so interesting to actually hear the questions from around the UK and the rest of the world. It would be awesome if you had listeners on for special episodes etc to see maybe what advice and thoughts you would have on different elements of life and people’s journeys love and conversational. It was also so cool to hear my own question answered on the podcast (CJ from Utah) you said you’d listen to me do a podcast… so if you ever need someone to fill in I’m always available ;) keep the episodes coming!
Sally B 81

A hilarious trip down memory lane 🫶

I’m loving Miquita and Lilly’s new podcast. I love the format of the two different shows, keeps it really interesting. I grew up down the road in North London in the same era so it’s a real trip down memory lane for me. 5 stars. Fabulous!
Kristina_Rhodes

My new favorite show

Adore this show!! Exactly what I didn’t know was missing from my life. I now look forward to Mondays and Thursdays when I pop on my headphones and listen to these lovely, brilliant and hilarious women discuss literally anything and everything that comes up in this human existence on planet earth. So honest. So refreshing. Fills my cup every time. Hello from Oregon, U.S.A!
Ambergris33

One thing leads to another

I am a gal that loves a glossy magazine and I’ve always grabbed the ones featuring Lilly on the cover over the years - absolutely LOVED the AD issue with her gorgeous home. Gave the podcast a try and I’ve been hooked from the start. I really enjoy listening while I’m working. Keep it up, dolls! - 🩷 A fan in mid-Michigan
ckeav

Lily Allen is a powerhouse!

And her friend is hysterical. Hanging out with these two is a trip to London in a podcast, with a layover in Brooklyn.
Xela.Xela

Good listening!

They really have me laughing and giggling! Love this podcast!
Liz in TX

Love it.

Relatable and entertaining. I love the personalities of the two and how they complement each other.
JamieLea

No thank you.

There are many podcasts out there to listen to and this isn’t it.
SnappyDani

Unevolved.

I am a firm believer in the line: not everyone needs to speak. This podcast is literally just talk. No research, just unevolved opinions on things they are unqualified to discuss. 0/10.
alixee

Racist Much?

Finding it “weird” that a southern woman is doing a country album? Rich that a British woman feels she has more of a right to make a country album than a black woman who is actually from the south.
Lamont Allard

A waste of time

Well that’s time I can never get back. Self indulgent nobody’s who are some never was and can’t ever been anything in the future. Just give up no one wants should listen yo these two try hards who just fail at every opportunity
Jaiii2004

Fan

I’m a Lily Allen fan and I found out she had a podcast with her friend and I know Lily Allen speaks the truth I’m so excited to hear more of you both ! So far I’m enjoying this podcast - (hello from Detroit USA)
dointhisbymyself

Can’t wait for more!

Such great fun to listen to these besties catch up!
ryftygyu

This is the best podcast ever

💗💗
Apple pie 7

Chef’s kiss

My new Monday and Thursday look forward to.
RossGeller97

Brilliant! Keep going!

Thank you so much for doing this! Thank you for being your authentic selves! It doesn’t feel like a podcast, just two best friends catching up, and I really love that! You girls deserve the best. God bless you!
Dame Helen mirren

Really lovely

Good stuff
BrittMarie03

CA misses you!

As an American girl with a British soul, I love this podcast. 🖤